Being Happy

Humiliation, pain, shame – romantic rejection brings a myriad of negative emotions.

Coping gets harder when we obsess about meeting societal expectations, eg., “You have to be married by a certain age” or “Being single is sad”.

Our lives are far too unpredictable and dynamic to fit into such rigid norms.

Your worth is not dependent on someone’s perception of you. You didn’t fail or lose anything.

People have different preferences and some people aren’t just meant for you.

Just like you can’t be friends with everyone you meet, you can’t have a real connection with every potential romantic partner.

Prioritize your personal growth and focus on feeling fulfilled in your life, which is already filled with so many blessings.

The right person will come along.

Published by Phoenix

I have been a teacher all my life. That doesn't just mean in School! I taught my brothers to ride bikes and go camping in the mountains. I taught Football, Cricket, Squash, Sailing, Climbing and Karate. In BNI I became the Education Coordinator. With my Property Business I laid on Investment Seminars. I taught my sons to Fish for Carp. And I still teach Maths and Physics to students who want to go to University to study Medicine or Engineering. Now I am teaching people the things I am learning online.

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