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Whenever you feel like things are crumbling and falling apart, it’s best not to play the victim game and blame others. Remind yourself that things are happening for you and not to you.
It’s easy to complain and play the victim game when life doesn’t turn out the way we’d hoped, planned or expected. But acting that way will not magically make things better.
Instead, tell yourself that things happen for a reason.
It’s not the end of the road for you if your relationship ended, you lost your job and experienced other unfortunate things. Things may not make sense, but one day you’ll look back and realize that certain things didn’t work out because something better was meant for you.
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